You don't get much done being too blunt.
I actually get that I'm extroverted, now. I used to be a semi-set introvert. I couldn't change it. I knew what an extrovert was. People would call me, probably, introverted for the reasons Ellen stated she was. I guess she is so clowny that if she were extroverted it would mean she wasn't deep. Instead of attributing this to the fact she is different and maybe "there" for others, she admits she is merely a "selfish" human, though she is not really actually the traditional sense of the word selfish, selfish like everyone else actually is though. She thinks that what you say doesn't mean anything. She even gets upset, like she has to have things her way.. it's pretty scary and horrific. I think her mom wants to know why and cares about her family more than others, unless they're from New Orleans. I have an aunt, and she probably thinks she's extroverted because she is loud when it comes to partying. However, she has become an introvert, which is the traditional thing to do in older age. I guess that's what Ellen means about herself, used to be the clown. I bet she crossed her eyes more than once with other kids, e he he he. She is horrifically self-centered, not in an implied way, but yes sorta thinks she's always right like the best even of the French do. They can fool around and still feel the dignity to get back on their feet. Ellen herself, she's herself. She probably is also one of those people who just want to be a kid. The only problem is she grew into a chubby and actually obese teenager and maybe young adult. I am not sure when she started tennis.. but she lost weight and started acting like "some hot shot," which again is good in many ways. She's lived a fantasy in New Orleans that she can still achieve even with a stronger pull towards ancient Jewish blood. I had to stop and look at myself, as it seemed popular for people to do. I mean, New Orleans, ya, it's a great place. You really "get taken care of."
I think she is literally an introvert in old age, and as to most of her career I believe she would say extrovert. It's not much to make sense of as being authentic but like adults who change in older age. I feel her career led up to sorta giving up, calling it introverted. Someone who is a talk show host is introverted because their mom didn't speak English and stuff. I can almost see her in motion like she's an infant learning to stand with very little hair. She is always very apologetic for what she does naturally, even if she doesn't need to worry about saying that. It just makes me so sad. I watch the show, and I feel it's so hard to get by with.
The next category is Sensing and iNtuiting. If she is introverted for why she said, she'd likely be iNtuitive, actually. I don't know if she feels very concrete.
Next is Feeling and Thinking. I don't know about this, now. It would seem to go with feeling, unless she has some strong quirk for being a thinker. I think being more self-indulged, I'd call her a feeler, and that's a compliment.
Judging and Percieving, if she is so laid back about everything she has to be a Perciever. That makes her an INFP. I used to like that type. It's the dreamer type.
I think her Enneagram type would be then Observer and Helper.
It just doesn't seem like the most popular talk show host would be a meditative introvert, like she's riding along in life and not setting the stakes for others, even though she is famous and should be more parental to others. Her mom is so careful in handling her. I read her dad is not American. Her mom's last name is probably Askenazi Jewish from Austria. I don't know anything other than that than that I heard she had 4 ethnicities, at 1st: French, English, German, Irish. Her family seems very self-serving, as well! It seems the DeGeneres's wanna fit in and are easy to say no cuz of who they are. They put in a show and pack up and go. Ellen is attached to her mom and isn't really who you think. She just puts out an image of a dream. She still needs Mommy, I mean, and I think she shouldn't cuz I grew up there and you don't need your mommy then. I think she does it to feel good. It's like a social tool. People do that. I'm not saying anything weird and bad about one's mom in older age. I like her mom a lot, too. I just thought Ellen was the more comforting type. Now, she's raving mad. I can't even post about my issues about her personal treatment to me in the experiment on my blog without her ticking at me. It has made me sad and delete many a conversation with myself on my blog. It's so stressful.
I would say a talk show host being introverted but blase is a selfish thing. It sounds like a trick. I mean, not everyone knows her, but she could reach out if she wanted. I dunno if you know about what you want out of the picture on the screen. It seems trouble's a'brewin'.
A lotta people hate introverts, but they don't hate Ellen like that, even if she said that, cuz she's Ellen. Good people would question how this could be. I would just say it means she's there for you and only was corny as a child. But I dunno, she does risky things when I'm upset, and that makes me even more upset and even more upset if it's just when I'm in a good mood. People creep up on me.
So, I think she needs to discover the rest of her personality. Introverted sounds interesting. You could be an Extrovert but iNtuitive like me. They do get mixed up. I don't think any of this has anythign to do with anything. If she's Introverted, she's lying and isn't there for you. I just can't seem to put her personality together with such a statement. An IN--? Someone Introverted and Sensing would be very detail-oriented and not selfish. Maybe, that's right and fits her, aha ha ha LOL. It just seems she'd have some magical definition for that part, too. As to thinking and feeling, that becomes another question. She would probably offset say she is a thinker and isn't one for sappy things or something worse than what I came up with. As for Juding and Perceiving, I dunno, it goes well with Perceiving. If she was a daytime talk show INTP would be something. That is a knowledge seeker. That's what she said. She really is probably an ENFP. She has to be a P. In fact, I even came up with ESFPP. Feeling means to think a lot about feelings. Introverted is not the way to go. I think it means she is closing up to everyone but who's simply there, like Portia and her dear mom. So, I don't really wanna get this.
I dunno, do you think she is lying and just saying it as
(A) older age creeping up, which it's traditional for one to go from Extrovert to Introvert
(B) a way to close up to the world so as to have more to herself, an addiction to pleasure
(C) something good, ________________________________ (fill in the blank)
I guess she is afraid to express herself, and I don't mind it. I never was just quiet as in shy. I wanted my own friends, but I was not obnoxious nor rambunctious. She goes along with the crowd and therefore has settled as an introvert, like some message that means something. She wants us to feel like we're bad, too, and that might even by why. That's what I'm on the lookout for. Her messing up or her preparing to get old. I mean, she is still young enough to be an active mom to a high schooler. Maybe, she is closed off to settle for being popular in all the bad ways as in naughty or mean, you know, to conform. She said she is a conformist. How can she be thought-probing if she is a conformist? Conforming, in my opinion, is bad. People are usually bad. She said she was a conformist. That explains her getting mad when I want to say something bothers me about her. That's all.
Anyway, let's imagine Ellen not as a crazed monster. So, she was an introverted class clown? Shy, as in wanting affection and to feel good, I bet.
Like you said:
She does shy away from getting attention, but she likes to see what people have to say cuz she is not treated like some misfit like I am. Despite race, we have personalities and good desires. I mean, she's not loud and proud. She does shy away from world fame, in some ways.. Maybe, she just has things to say that she doesn't say.
It's funny how celebs shy away. They probably all wanna be cool like Ellen. A lotta normal people are like her. I also cut my hair short and dyed it blonde. That's money out of my pocket. I hope shy also means she doesn't need to feel good in a weird way. Extroverts are the weirdos. She knows being a class clown is okay. An intuitive class clown? Introversion and iNtuition are often seen as the same thing. It's sad people can't go into anything else other than Extroversion and Introversion. Introversion is seen as selfish for people who can't decide. It means they made a scene and evaporated and now are treated better for no reason while others are treated like they're worse, like they don't wanna be polite but keep to themselves, too.
I don't want to think all of a sudden I am just like everyone else. That's not me, neither.
That I just wish Ellen were my mom? I like my mom.. What's wrong with liking her "that much?" Some people are bad and don't care to react so much, like they don't wanna get up and say it.
I feel Ellen wants to all of a sudden tell me I'm like everyone else so she can feel more special. She'll use a petty excuse. Really, I mean I'm not bad and slipping isn't bad. She herself was a clown. I think she also said that to attract people younger than me to her. It hurts a lot, but I am not like everyone else. I chose to be different. I'm considered very accomplished and well-directed. I can't have people making me feel like I'm nothing just because they have an issue about their own different reputation. It's like kids don't matter or young adults coming into the world never really mattered.
